Sunday, May 13, 2018

Greetings from Liz. Tantra Goa

I can’t believe it is already May of 2018!  Where has the year gone?  It has been an unusual year for me. I went back to the USA twice within 6-months.  I needed to see family and take care of some financial business.  I didn’t socialize much nor see any client’s since last year.

My health has been really good this past year once we figured out I was being slowly poisoned from some medicines. I stopped taking them but the poison remains inside of me. I live a pretty healthy life so this has helped.  The meds slightly damaged my kidneys, and is still in my DNA, nervous system, arteries and liver.  I am lucky to be alive!  Some of the treatments I do to myself have really made a difference.  I use something daily that rewires me at a cellular level.  My friends tell me I never age.  Some of this "anti-aging" I experience is from genetics.

Some of you reading this may know that I have spent a lot of time with a very special gentlemen friend since August of 2017.  It’s a weird kind of friendship/relationship.  One that is long lasting verses a hot, steamy, romantic rendezvous. I love the way he smells, even when he is at the gym.  He consumes my thoughts and my juices are always flowing just being around him.  Maybe this has helped my health situation; to have someone I really care about in my life.  He is a bit guarded with his emotions and feelings, but I know I make a difference in his life.  Although he’ll never let me know how much I mean to him.

I have been single for 18-years!  So this change in relationship status is new for me.  I have spent so many years in my Tantra life that I never wanted a relationship.  I just found it too complicated to do both. 

My friend is “totally” single too.  I know a rarity for a 40+ year old man in India to have never been married.  We are both quiet independent and use to being alone.  Friends are shocked when I say we never spend the night together.  We have only twice in the year and a half we have been friends.  And this was after a night of partying!  In Tantra, it is best to not sleep together every night.  The masculine/feminine poles need to be apart so they will attract.  Our life together is not really Tantric, not like the relationship I envisioned being involved in.  As I have gotten older, I’m okay with that.

So, I am still not seeing any client’s in Goa.  I just don’t feel right inviting any client’s to my space.  I will consider seeing friends in Mumbai, Bangalore, Chennai or Delhi if they pay my (higher travelling) fee plus all travel related expenses.  So if you are interested in seeing me, send me a detailed note of your interest.  I may start seeing friends again in September. I really am selective in who I will see and want to make sure it is for men who need my service and will appreciate my craft.

The exciting new is I now have an income for life.  A totally shocking windfall! I am so blessed to have this available to me. At my age, and to not have to worry about money is well……………… surreal!  I’m not rich, but I can live a comfortable life here in India.

I have been doing Tantra or offering companionship to men for many years.  Now, it’s time for me!  I am not saying that this is it and Liz is totally retired.  I want to keep my options open shall I find I really miss my work.  In 2005 and 2013 I took sabbaticals and I decided to return.  So who knows, it could happen again!

Gentlemen always ask me who I can refer them to.  Honestly, what I offer in India or anywhere else is quite rare.  Most Tantra is just an erotic massage.  Unfortunately, I do not know of anyone.  I guess the thing to do is to Google and do you own research to find someone for your Tantra curiosities. 

Saturday, February 24, 2018

Sexy Tantra Tip

Please take a look at the video by Tanja.  She was one of my teachers.  Listen to what she says.  It's important stuff in a relationship.  Another comment I could add is to be present when you are with your woman, both in and out of the bedroom.  We can tell when you are thinking about your day at the office and not paying attention to us.  Actually listen to what your partner has to say.  Be engaging.  I am really noticing this in my current relationship.  When wee stared out; he was all ear's.  We could talk about anything for hour's.  This is what attracted me to him.  And now...................he seems disinterested.  So I am starting to pull back.

Sunday, January 28, 2018

Trials and tribulations

Hello my Tantra friends.  I just wanted to touch base with you and let you know how I am doing and what I am up to. 

I am still not offering any Tantra sessions.  I am not to the point where I miss my craft.  I have retired in the past and really missed it.  But even then, it took well over a year of not offering any sessions before I was ready to get back into it.  This time, I sense it could be sooner.

I'm spending time alone and with my new friend.  I just didn't feel like it was right to invite any of you to my home which has become the sacred space for me and my friend.  I don't think he would appreciate me sharing my space.  I am sure most of you can agree with this.

Over the last couple of months, I have gotten some really sweet emails.  Mostly from men I have met before or have corresponded with for a while.  And some emails have been from men who have never written me.  Frankly, I am shocked apart from a few emails, most don't even bother to write me back and say, "good luck with your new life, Liz.  Sorry we never got to meet".  It just shows to me how many selfish and immature men have been writing me over the years.  It's all about ME, ME, ME (meaning them, them, them).  Nothing else matters.  This is one reason so many men have troubles in their relationships with women.  The most important thing in your life should be your wife or partner first, your children second, then family and your career lastly.  Sex is very important in our lives, but it is not everything in a relationship.  How many of you are friends with your wife?  You actually talk and communicate on a daily basis with her?  Are you listening to what she has to say?  When is the last time you hugged her?  Kissed her? Told her how beautiful she is and how much you love her?  When is the last time you gave her a massage and not wanted anything else in return?  When is the last time you gave her loving affection without wanting sex in return?  Have you heard the expression, "happy wife equals a happy life"?  This is so true.  These few above gestures go a long way in a relationship.  Surprisingly, more than good sex and lasting longer.  Be present with her.  Feel yourself inside of her.  We can tell when you are us and your heart and head are somewhere else.  If you have read my blog long enough, you know how I always speak about living in the moment!!!!  Get in touch with your five senses.  Incredible things will happen when you do.

Relationship's of any kind take work.  I am dealing with the trials and tribulations of being in  a relationship for the first time in many, many years.  Believe me, it is much easier to teach about Tantra, give lovely massages and see men on their best behavior rather than be in a normal day to day relationship!  Maybe I'll share my struggles here.  And then again, I probably won't share too much.

All and all, things are going okay!   

Tuesday, December 26, 2017

Important Tantra Announcement, Please Read

Hello my lovely Tantra friends!  I have some much awaited news.  For many of you this will be sad news and others will embrace this with joy and understanding. 

I have arrived in Goa and am still on sabbatical from offering any Tantra sessions.  This sabbatical may last a few more weeks or even a few more months.  But please know, at the moment, I plan to fully retire starting in August.  It has been an amazing 16-years sharing my sensual arts and craft with gentlemen from all around the world.  This work has provided me with a lifestyle most can only dream about.  At times it has been challenging, especially here in India.  Dealing with different cultures, the language barrier, worrying about the neighbors, accents and totally different mindsets has not been easy.  The lack of respect has been the greatest challenge of all.  Almost all of the men who see me are loving, generous and respectful but actually getting those men to me for a session takes me trusting my intuition and weeding through hundreds and hundreds of emails.

Things have changed these last few months where I feel I can no longer give my client's my full attention.  My purpose (at the moment) is to give a special man in my life the full attention, love, care and healing that he so much needs and deserves.  For years, I have been giving so much to my clients and have not taken care of own needs.  I have not allowed myself to be in a relationship as I felt it would interfere in my work.  So it's time to heal the healer and allow my heart to fully open!

I'll write in my blog from time to time so you can always check back. Maybe I will get inspired to write again.   If I decide to start offering sessions before my full retirement, I will announce it here.  I'll keep my website going for now and may even consider selling the site as it does get a lot of hits here in India and could be valuable tool for someone else in the industry.  Also, I will still respond to most emails sent to me as I have built relationships over the years with many of you.

As 2017 comes to a close, I wish you all the best for a happy, healthy and prosperous 2018.

Friday, December 8, 2017

Learn why the cougar is hunted by so many men.

When I first moved to India, I thought younger men we only interested in me because they thought I had a lot of money. It took a couple of year's to catch on, but here are some of the more obvious reasons below.
Learn why the cougar is hunted by so many men.

The younger man who has a sexual encounter with an older woman will remember it as some of the best sex of his life. The benefits will continue when the young man is ready for a relationship with a girl of his age. One result to having experienced sex with a cougar is that the attraction may end up becoming his "type."

Once you're with a cougar, you'll be hard pressed to find a better tutor. Here are ten reasons younger men say that their older lovers are sexually superior to their younger lovers.

1.    It's a numbers game.

The cougar age alone means many more years of experience with multiple partners. Before marriage, they may have had a few partners. After divorce, the notches on their bedposts may have gone up exponentially.

2.They have had lots of practice.

Cougars have been in long term relationships and marriages, which have provided years of sexual experience with one partner. Those memories are implanted into the older woman's brain and, whether good or bad, have shaped her sexual expertise.

3. They know what they want.

Their self-awareness comes from years of experience and communicating with sexual partners. They've tried different positions, techniques, and fetishes. They've self-pleasured themselves for many years, and aren't afraid of communicating the stuff that really gets them purring.

If the girl doesn't know what she wants, it's hard for the man to figure it out. Cougars know exactly what they want and which buttons the guy needs to press.

4. They have learned what men want.

And they are eager to find out the specific desires of their current boyfriend. They've been taught by a variety of partners which positions and techniques turn men on. They ask questions and figure out what makes their man roar like the king of a lion's den. What they don't know, they will research in books, movies or on the Internet.

5. They enjoy sex as much as her younger male partner.

They don't have any delusions that they are going to hook this man into marriage and/or start a family. This takes the pressure off a man who just wants to have fun without obligations. This stress relief is a major reason sex is great with an older woman who isn't as needy or demanding. 

6. They realize the importance of sex in a relationship.

She may have been in a marriage where sex was withheld. She won't use sex as a bargaining chip or try to get something materialistic from the younger man. Cougars know the psychological and physical benefits to regular sex.

7. It's flattering to the younger man that a hot older woman finds him desirable.

It's a challenge to be with an attractive, sexy older lady who is physically fit and keeps herself well groomed. She has the time to take care of herself since her children are older and less dependent.

8. They enjoy teaching their eager younger students.

They know when to be dominant and submissive. The man senses this knowledge and power, which is very stimulating. The older woman will buy books, lingerie, sex toys, candles and wine to set the mood.

9. They have confidence in their bodies and sexual prowess.

This is a huge turn-on for men who may have been with young girls who are just learning the ropes. The younger girls may be self-consciousand uncomfortable talking dirty in bed. Older women are spontaneous and comfortable being naked.

10. They aren't afraid of communicating.

The younger man will know exactly where he stands with her. She won't play mind games with her younger man by not answering her phone. She will approach a man in a bar and not wait for him to make the first move. She will indicate what she wants from the relationship. She will openly share her sexual needs and desires. She isn't worried about losing the man if she expresses herself. 


Arrived back in Goa

Hello my Tantra friends. 

I am not back in Goa, India.  I have been out of India for almost 5-weeks and am slowly getting resettled to my awesome life here in Goa.

I'll explain in more detail later, but right now I need a little more time before seeing any Tantra friends. 

Just know that good things are happening to me!!!!!!!!